Category Archives: Ask Nikki
WHEN YOU DON’T HAVE A BFF
Today’s question comes from Mikaela, who writes: I feel like I’m the only one that doesn’t have a BFF. Don’t get me wrong; I have friends, but not BEST friends. I just want someone to hang out with instead of being a loner. Please help me! My Advice: Hi Mikaela! I’m sorry to hear that you’re a Sam without a […] Read more
WHEN YOUR FRIEND ISN’T TREATING YOU WELL
Today’s question comes from Katelyn, who writes: My friend Isabel never has any time for me! She doesn’t always treat me as well as my other friends do, and sometimes she rolls her eyes at me when I’m across the room. What should I do!? My Advice: Hi Katelyn! It sounds like this friend of […] Read more
WHEN YOUR PARENTS COMPARE YOU TO YOUR SIBLING
Today’s question comes from Lena, who writes: My family values intelligence over everything else, and my brother is really smart. He has medals, awards, honors, and he’s taking pre-calculus, even though he’s only 13. It’s a lot to live up to, and my parents are always comparing me to him. They say, “Your brother had […] Read more
WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE YOU’RE ALWAYS SECOND BEST
Today’s question comes from Anita, who writes: I feel like I’m always second best. I’m always the backup friend, the third wheel. When my teachers tell us to get into pairs, I’m always the one left out. All my friends partner up, and I’m left standing there awkwardly. I’m sick of being everyone’s second choice. […] Read more
WHEN YOUR FRIENDS WON’T FORGIVE YOU
Today’s question came in anonymously. It reads: My friend and I love to banter back and forth. We do it until we get on each other’s nerves. But this time I went too far, when she started it. I said some awful things, and now my other friends can’t seem to forgive me for it, […] Read more
WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE YOU’RE LOSING YOUR NEWLY POPULAR BFF
Today’s question came in anonymously. It reads: My cousin, who is my best friend, is amazing. She’s outgoing, friendly, and popular. When we were little, we were practically twins, connected by the arm. But, ever since she dated and broke up with this popular guy, everyone knows and loves her. I mean, it’s great that […] Read more
WHEN YOU CAN’T STOP FIGHTING WITH YOUR SIBLING
Today’s question comes from Kendra, who writes: My sister and I always fight over small things, and almost every day. It’s terrible! My parents keep saying, “You should stop fighting! You two are sisters!” But we can’t seem to stop! What should I do? My Advice Hi Kendra! I can TOTALLY relate to this! I fight […] Read more
WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU TALK TOO MUCH
Today’s question comes from Rhoda, who writes: People tell me I talk too much. One of my not-so-close friends was telling my BFFs a secret, so I wanted to be with them, but that friend sent me away. And I heard her say, “All my friends can know but not her.” Then I was at […] Read more
WHEN YOU’RE NERVOUS ABOUT GOING TO A PARTY
Today’s question comes from Roshe, who writes: OMG Nikki! My friend, a popular girl, just invited me to her pool party. And guess what! My crush (also my friend) is going to be there! My parents are kind of over-protective, so could you please help me convince them to let me go? And, how can […] Read more
WHEN PEOPLE DON’T PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT YOU SAY
Today’s question comes from Sarah, who writes: I am totally annoyed with the kids at my school, who always block me out. I can never talk to people in big groups because they just talk over me. Please help! My Advice: Hi Sarah! Sorry to hear you’re dealing with a bunch of RLMs (rude loudmouths)! […] Read more
