Category Archives: self-esteem

HOW DO I LEARN TO LOVE MY BODY???

Hey Nikki, I’m someone who struggles with how they look. I never feel confident about myself and always think I look the worst with groups of friends. I don’t know how to accept myself and to love who I am. Any advice? 🙁 How Do I Love The Skin I’m In Hi How Do I […] Read more

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Help! I’m A GIANT!

Hey Brandon! I’m a girl and six feet tall, which makes me a lot taller than most kids my age. I’m really lonely up here and I don’t know what to do. My friends bully me because I’m so tall and often make jokes about me “reaching things” and “being a giraffe!” Plus, no boys […] Read more

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I HAVE EPILEPSY!

Hi Brandon, I have epilepsy, and sometimes I get seizures during class. Everyone stares at me and it makes me feel really weird. I don’t think a guy will ever ask me to the dance because of it. All my friends have someone to go with. What do I do? Please respond – it took […] Read more

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Should I Be A Tomboy Or A Girly Girl?

What’s up readers, it’s Brandon! Before we begin, I just want to say that I usually answer one letter at a time. But this week, there were three letters about the same question. I did this since it helps to know you’re not alone and that other people struggle with the same issue. So, here […] Read more

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MY MOM IS OBSESSED WITH HER WEIGHT

Nikki, I need your advice. My mom always wants to lose weight but she’s already super slim, so I’m starting to worry about her. I’m afraid that she might develop an eating disorder or something. She keeps saying she’s fat and needs to lose more weight. Please help! Worried About My Mom Hi Worried About […] Read more

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HOW DO I GET IN BETTER SHAPE?

Dear Nikki, HELP! I feel like a weakling because I’m super skinny and don’t exercise.  I’m horrible at sports, and my flexibility stinks so bad that I can’t even do the stretching poses right in PE. Any advice? Shameful Shape Hi Shameful Shape, I think it’s awesome that you want to get in better shape! […] Read more

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DO MY FRIENDS SECRETLY HATE ME BECAUSE OF MY WEIGHT?

Dear Nikki, I’m actually kind of embarrassed to ask this, but I’m constantly worrying that my friends secretly hate me because I wear plus sizes. I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that, but some people care about looks. I just need some encouragement. Thanks, Fear Of Fake Friends Hi […] Read more

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I’M NOT GOOD AT ANYTHING!!!

Hey Nikki, I’m not good at anything! (Except studying, but anyone can be good at that.) I’ve tried a lot of different things, from art to football. How can I find my inner talent?? Talentless Hi Talentless, Okay, first of all, you’re NOT talentless. You’ve GOT to be good at SOMETHING, and that’s exactly what […] Read more

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THE TRUE MEANING OF “COOL”

Okay. So, remember when I first started going to WCD and wanted to fit in with the CCPs (a.k.a. Cute, Cool and Popular kids)? And, for a split second, MacKenzie actually BRAINWASHED me into wishing I was invited to her birthday party? Well, MacKenzie has made my life a total NIGHTMARE since then! And, what […] Read more

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AM I GOOD LOOKING?

Whassup Brandon, I know that this might sound like a really strange question, but…am I good looking? My buddy always raves about being better looking than I am and making all the girls swoon over him. And lately, I’ve been wanting to impress this girl, but I’m not really sure if I’ve got it going […] Read more

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